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Let's talk about it
Let's have a chat
Let's have a chat
about sex!
Let's talk about it, laugh about it and embrace the joy, the curiosity, and the sheer delight of it all. Because your pleasure matters. Your body matters. And your voice most definitely matters.
I offer a warm and welcoming space where you can explore the full spectrum of your erotic landscape. Whether you're yearning for deeper connection, seeking to reignite that spark, or simply wanting to expand your pleasure horizons, I'm here to guide you on that journey.
My approach is all about
A judgment-free zone
Creating a Safe and Supportive Space: My therapy space is a judgment-free zone where you can feel comfortable exploring your vulnerabilities and sharing your experiences without shame, anxiety or any other emotions you may feel.
Honoring Your Individuality: Your journey to pleasure is unique, and we'll honour that. We'll work together to create a plan that's tailored to your specific needs and desires.
Celebrating Your Body: Your body is a source of pleasure and power. We'll work on cultivating a positive relationship with your body, embracing its sensuality and honouring its wisdom.
Here's how I can help
Navigating the path
Navigating the path
to pleasure
Here's how I can help you navigate the path to pleasure. Whatever you're bringing to the room — we'll work through it together.
Book a Free Consultation- Finding Your Voice, Finding Your Pleasure Some conversations can be HARD to have. Talking to your partner(s) about what you want in your sex life, what's hot and what's not can evoke all kinds of feelings. From face flushing shyness, toe curling embarrassment to deep and distressing shame. We'll look at those (and possibly more) barriers that are hindering your sexy self to emerge. I'm here to help you work on cultivating confident communication in the bedroom. How you express your desires, boundaries, and fantasies with clarity and ease. Think of it as learning a new language — the language of pleasure! We'll decode those hidden desires, unravel any anxieties, and empower you to ask for what you want with confidence, joy and a healthy dose of sass.
- Embracing Your Body, Embracing Your Sensuality The internet is full of unrealistic beauty standards and that's exactly what they are. Unrealistic. So we're going to ditch the social construct of what is 'beautiful' and celebrate you in all your sexy, wonderful uniqueness just as you are. You deserve to feel comfortable and confident in your own skin, both inside and outside the bedroom. I'll help you on your journey of self-acceptance and body positivity, so you can fully embrace your sensual self.
- Rekindling Your Spark, Reigniting Your Desire AWOL desire? Do you feel like your want for sex and intimacy has packed its bag and left without even a 'see you later'? Do you miss it and want it to come home? We'll explore the fascinating science of desire and arousal, helping you understand the intricate dance between your brain, body, and emotions. We'll seek out any potential roadblocks to your pleasure, whether it's stress, relationship dynamics, or past experiences, and develop strategies to overcome them.
- Expanding Your Pleasure Repertoire, Exploring New Horizons We'll ditch the "shoulds" and embrace the "wants" when it comes to your sex life. We'll explore different forms of intimacy, experiment with new techniques, and discover what truly lights you up. We'll break free from routines and inject some spontaneity and adventure back into the bedroom.
- Troubleshooting and Triumphing, Overcoming Obstacles Experiencing pain, anxiety or other challenges, or obstacles in the bedroom? We'll work together to find solutions and create a more fulfilling and enjoyable sexual experience. We'll investigate the root cause of these issues and explore potential solutions, whether it's through mini homework projects (such as reading an article or watching a talk) to specific exercises and/or communication techniques.
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Ready to talk about sex and pleasure? Let's work together to create a sex life that's as vibrant and fulfilling as you are.
Sam Jones — The Art of Intimacy
Getting started
Simple from the
Simple from the
very first step
No lengthy intake forms. No waiting months. No interpretive dance required (unless you want to).
1
Free 20-min consultation
I offer a 20 minute free telephone conversation where we can chat and see if we're a good fit. No pressure, just good vibes!
2
Choose how you work
Online via video call — Google Meet, Zoom, WhatsApp, you choose — or face-to-face on the Wirral. Sessions can be 50 or 90 minutes long.
3
Therapy your way
Feeling tongue-tied? No worries! Art, music, or movement. Basically, if it helps you tell your story, we'll use it!
4
Mini homework projects
Between sessions I may suggest mini homework projects — reading an article, watching a talk, or specific exercises. Always discussed and agreed with you first.
Questions
The ones people
The ones people
Google at midnight
Answered honestly. No jargon.
Does anything physical happen in sessions?
No. Absolutely not. Psychosexual therapy is entirely a talking therapy. No examinations, no physical contact, nothing of that nature — ever. If exercises are suggested for between sessions, these are always discussed, agreed, and done privately in your own time. Nothing happens in the session itself other than conversation.
Do I need to come with a partner?
No. Many people come alone, even when the difficulty affects a relationship. Some start alone and later invite their partner in. There's no requirement either way — you decide what feels right.
How many sessions will I need?
It depends on the issue and the person. Some things shift significantly in 6 to 8 sessions. More complex, longstanding difficulties take longer. I don't impose a fixed number — we review progress together and you're always in charge of when we finish.
Do you work online or in person?
Both. Not wanting to leave the comfort of your home? We can connect via video call on your favourite platform, from Google Meet to good ol' WhatsApp. Therapy that fits your life. In-person sessions are also available on the Wirral, Merseyside.
Will you judge me?
Absolutely not. My therapy space is a judgment-free zone where you can feel comfortable exploring your vulnerabilities and sharing your experiences without shame or anxiety. I bring professionalism, empathy, and compassion — but also a sprinkling of humour. The fun stuff!
Do you work with LGBTQ+ clients?
Yes — fully and affirmingly. I identify as gender fluid and gay and am part of the LGBTQ+ community myself. I also hold a specialist GSRD Diploma from Pink Therapy and have over a decade of experience working with queer clients, trans and non-binary people, and all forms of sexual and gender diversity.
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