Psychosexual Therapy
When something disrupts the language of pleasure, it can leave you feeling disconnected and very alone with it. Specialist psychosexual therapy since 2007. London Diploma qualified.
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Ditch the therapy snoozefest
Therapy that actually
Therapy that actually
fits your life
Traditional therapy has its place. But if you've ever sat in a beige room being asked how that made you feel for the forty-seventh time, you'll know it isn't always the right fit.
I trained rigorously, I supervise regularly, and I take the work seriously. I just refuse to make it feel like a chore. Therapy should feel like a choose-your-own-adventure story.
My approach is all about
Warm, direct
Warm, direct
and genuinely flexible
- Your story, your way Feeling tongue-tied? No worries. I'm all for using different ways to express what's going on, through art, music, or movement. If it helps you tell your story, we'll use it.
- No judgment, ever Nothing gets pathologised or treated as shocking here. Your thoughts, desires, fears and experiences are received with respect and complete confidentiality every single time.
- A generous dose of humour Therapy doesn't have to be serious and stuffy. Laughter is a legitimate therapeutic tool. If something is funny, we'll laugh. It doesn't mean we're not also doing the deep work.
How we work together
Shaped entirely
Shaped entirely
around you
There's no set script and no agenda other than yours. We move at the speed that's right for you and change direction whenever you need to.
Book a Free Consultation- Creative Expression Sometimes words aren't enough. We can work through art, music, storytelling or whatever medium helps you make sense of what's going on. No artistic ability required. Air guitar solos actively encouraged.
- Direct Conversation Sometimes talking is exactly what's needed. Warm, honest and direct, with someone who has genuinely heard it all before and won't flinch at any of it.
- Your Pace, Not Mine There's no programme to follow and no set number of sessions. You share what you're ready to share, when you're ready to share it. We move at whatever speed feels right.
- Online or In Person Not wanting to leave the comfort of your home? We can connect via video call on your favourite platform, from Google Meet to good old WhatsApp. Therapy that fits your life, wherever you are in the UK.
- Specialist Knowledge Behind It All Warm and flexible doesn't mean lightweight. Seventeen years of specialist experience in psychosexual, GSRD, gender and relationship therapy sits behind every session.
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Therapy should feel like a choose-your-own-adventure story.
Sam Jones, The Art of Intimacy
Getting started
Simple from the
Simple from the
very first step
No lengthy intake forms. No waiting months. No beige rooms.
1
Free 20-min consultation
A relaxed, no-commitment phone call to see if we're a good fit. No forms, no pressure, just a conversation.
2
Come as you are
No need to arrive with answers or have it all figured out. You just need to show up. We take it from there.
3
Choose how we connect
Online via video call (Google Meet, Zoom, WhatsApp, your choice) or face-to-face on the Wirral. Flexible to fit your life.
4
Work at your own pace
No fixed programme and no imposed timeline. You set the pace and we review progress together as we go.
Questions
Things people wonder
Things people wonder
before they call
Answered honestly. No jargon.
What actually happens in a session?
That depends entirely on you and what you need. Sometimes it's a conversation. Sometimes it's working through something creative. Sometimes it's sitting with a feeling and figuring out where it came from. There's no set script and no agenda other than yours.
How long are sessions and how often?
Sessions can be 50 or 90 minutes long. Frequency is up to you. Weekly works well for most people, but fortnightly or more flexible arrangements are also possible. We figure it out together.
Do I have to talk about everything straight away?
Absolutely not. You share what you're ready to share, when you're ready to share it. There's no pressure to dive into the deep end. Some people take a few sessions just to get comfortable, and that's completely fine.
Is online therapy as effective as in person?
For most people, yes. The research is solid on this and my own experience backs it up. Many clients actually find it easier to open up from their own space. The connection, the work and the results are all just as real.
What if I've had bad experiences with therapy before?
Tell me. Knowing what hasn't worked before is one of the most useful things I can know. Bad therapy experiences are more common than they should be, and understanding yours helps me make sure we do things differently.
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